Calm Clan
Where real peace and real life grow together.
Ongoing guidance, practice and community to tend your inner world — and grow into a calmer, wiser, more alive and whole way of living.
A different kind of community
We live in a world overflowing with information, content, techniques and opinions — yet many people still feel overwhelmed, fragmented, or quietly disconnected from themselves and their own lives.
What’s often missing isn’t effort or more content — but a quieter, deeper, more meaningful context.
Calm Clan exists to restore context: a grounded, ongoing space where inner peace, understanding and real life are not separate - and where wellbeing and growth happens naturally over time.
This isn’t a place to constantly fix yourself or chase a better version of you. It’s a place to learn how to relate to your mind, emotions, body and life differently - with a lived experience of more calm, clarity, honesty and ease.
Inside Calm Clan, this context is supported and grown through online gatherings, guided practice, and a shared community — not as something to keep up with, but as a space to return to.
You just need a genuine interest in tending your inner life — and allowing that to shape how you perceive, relate, live, and experience yourself and life.
“Calm Clan is the best online community I’ve found for real spiritual growth. It’s supportive, grounded, and makes you feel like you genuinely matter.” Pamela, Australia
“Sandy shows genuine interest and care for your personal journey. Calm Clan is a safe place to learn, grow and develop strengths more than you ever thought possible.” Liz, UK
What Calm Clan Offers
Calm Clan is not just content or occasional inspiration. It’s a living environment that supports real change — at the level where it truly matters and makes the biggest difference: your inner world.
As a member, you receive:
Anytime-access teaching — online masterclasses, courses, retreats, and replays that deepen understanding, and that you can explore at your own pace.
Practical inner work — tools that calm the mind, regulate the nervous system and transform how you relate to your mind, emotions, body and life.
Grounded meditation and contemplative practices — deep without dogma, effective without bypassing, and enjoyable without any pressure to perform.
Live gatherings with Sandy — space for real guidance, honest enquiry, and supportive connection with others on a similar journey to you.
A kind, like-minded community — where you can share, listen and grow with people who value depth, kindness and honesty.
Together, these elements create something rare: ongoing support for becoming more at home in yourself — and meeting life from that place. Many members feel calmer inside, and find that life becomes less reactive, more responsive, and more easeful, simply because they’re no longer navigating it alone or from old patterns.
Calm Clan is also the only place where I now share my personal-use online courses and retreats, alongside community gathering replays and ongoing support.
“Since being part of Calm Clan, I feel calmer and clearer in my life. For the first time, I’ve experienced a real sense of self-love and acceptance for others.” Yvonne, UK
“Being part of Calm Clan has helped me feel happier and connected — to myself, to others, and to life. The changes feel natural, not forced.” Clare, Ireland
How Calm Clan Supports You Over Time
Calm Clan isn’t designed for quick fixes or surface-level change. It supports the evolution of a far better relationship with yourself and your life — over time.
Calm Clan provides a stable context that helps you:
relate differently to your thoughts instead of being ruled by them
meet emotions honestly rather than suppressing or managing them
reconnect with your body and gently support your nervous system
navigate real-life challenges with more clarity and steadiness
integrate inner understanding into how you decide, work, relate and live — in real time
This isn’t about focusing on individual problems, specific outcomes, or becoming a better version of yourself. It’s about becoming more yourself — with less inner friction and more flow in how life moves. Here’s a short talk that captures one aspect of what I mean by ‘becoming more yourself’ — and why that matters.
The journey is both being and becoming more fully yourself — and it unfolds in stages.
The ARC - How Real Change Unfolds, From The Inside-Out
Inside Calm Clan, the shift in how you relate to yourself and life tends to follow a natural rhythm — not a rigid programme or steps to achieve, but a lived map of whole-human change and authentically real spiritual growth. I call this ARC:
A = Awareness
You begin to recognise a deeper, steadier perspective beneath your thinking. This presence of inner awareness brings space, clarity, and relief, and a different relationship with yourself and life starts to form. Not because life becomes ‘perfect’, but because it is met more consciously.
R = Relationship
With awareness present, you are able to meet your humanity more honestly. Emotions, patterns, conditioning, and body-held experiences are no longer avoided or fought, but related to with kindness and understanding. This healthier relationship with what is happening supports healing and growth.
C = Congruence
Awareness and everyday life come into alignment. Inner understanding and outer living begin to match, allowing for being and becoming, calm and aliveness, peace and progress to coexist. Clarity leads, reactions soften, and life is lived with greater authenticity, flow, and wholeness.
It is an ongoing way of living where awareness and humanity - mind, body and soul - work together in harmony, leading to a better life overall.
Calm Clan exists to support this entire arc — not just one stage of it.
Inside the Calm Calm, you’ll have access to:
Live monthly gatherings with Sandy. Guidance, grounded teaching, and real-time support — whether you join live or watch the replays.
An extensive library of courses, masterclasses and retreats. Explore at your own pace, deepen understanding, and revisit the teachings whenever you need them.
A meditations and toolkit library. Practices designed to calm the nervous system, open awareness, and help you live more clearly.
A kind, grounded community. A safe space to share, listen and learn alongside like-minded people who value depth, honesty and growth.
Support between gatherings. Regular prompts, reflections, and new resources to keep your inner world tended and your growth continuous.
“There are so many resources within the Calm Clan that it really is a one stop shop for healing, calmness and enjoying life.” Emma, Jersey
“Joining Calm Clan has genuinely changed my life. If you want transformative teachings, guided practices, and a friendly community to help you grow and live better — this is the place to be.” Lyndon, UK
Membership
Calm Clan is intentionally priced to be accessible and generous, reflecting its role as ongoing support rather than a high-intensity commitment.
If you’re looking for a place where:
real peace and real life grow together
insight becomes lived experience
growth happens naturally, not through pressure
your humanity is included, not bypassed
Then Calm Clan may be what are looking for.
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£24 / Month
$32 / €28 per month (approx.)
£288/yr when paying monthly
£240 / Year
US$320 / €280 per year (approx.)
Get two months free
Best for long-term benefits
A note on pricing
Calm Clan isn’t built for intensity or urgency. It’s priced so you can join easily, stay gently connected, and return whenever it supports you.
This isn’t a programme to complete or content to consume quickly. It’s a steady context you can live alongside your life — whether you’re actively engaging, quietly listening, or simply knowing it’s there when you need it.
Many members stay not because they’re “doing” Calm Clan, but because it improves how they understand and relate to themselves and their life over time.
The small print, up-front
Subscriptions are monthly or yearly. You can join or leave at any time. If you ever want to step away, simply cancel from your account — and you’ll be warmly welcome back whenever it feels right. Scroll down for FAQs - including how to unsubscribe.
Payments are handled via PayPal for automatic billing. If you’d prefer not to use PayPal, please contact us for alternative ways to join.
Replays Library
Anytime access to past teachings - at your pace.
Live Zoom Gatherings
Guidance, reflection and real-life integration.
Courses & Retreats
Mind Detox and Calmology - all included.
Meditations Library
Grounded practices for mind, body and soul.
Toolkit Library
Resources for navigating mind, emotions and life.
Expert Interviews
Perspectives that expand your understanding.
Who Calm Clan is for
Calm Clan may be a good fit if you:
feel drawn to real inner change, not just surface improvement
are tired of collecting techniques without integration
want spirituality that’s grounded, human, and free from bypassing
value depth, honesty and lived experience over hype
want support that grows with you as life evolves
You don’t need to be calm, “awake,” or spiritually experienced.
You just need a genuine interest in tending your inner life — and allowing that to shape how you live.
What Calm Clan Is Not
To be clear, Calm Clan is not:
a motivational programme
a productivity or success system
a high-pressure group environment
a place to spiritually bypass real human experience
something you need to “keep up with”
It’s a space you can return to, whenever you want, as life unfolds.
“Calm Clan is a place where you can be safely open, without judgement. Being part of such a kind, inclusive community has helped me feel more at ease in myself.” Kathryn, UK
How People Use Calm Clan
There’s no single way to engage with Calm Clan. Some members:
dip in when something feels unsettled
attend online ‘Calm Call’ meetings as a regular anchor
use the meditation library to steady their inner world
explore the teachings gradually over time
stay connected quietly in the background — with replays and resources.
A supportive, stable safe-haven — and, at times, stepping stone.
Many people join during a challenging period or when they know they want to support in their healing or growth. Many stay long after — because the support continues to meet them as life evolves. Some choose to go even deeper with my one-to-one sessions or academy courses.
If you’re wondering why Calm Clan feels different, here’s the heart of it.
What Makes Calm Clan Different?
Most memberships offer content. Calm Clan offers context, continuity, presence, perspective and a journey (ARC).
What makes Calm Clan different is:
This is not a collection of ideas to consume, but an environment that supports real integration — where understanding deepens because it’s revisited, practised, embodied and lived.
Depth without dogma
The teachings are grounded, practical, and human — informed by therapeutic understanding, mind–body work, lived spiritual practice, and real life.Practice over pressure
There’s no urgency, no performance, and nothing to “keep up with”. You’re supported to engage at your own pace.Perspective over fixing
The focus is not on endlessly working on yourself, but on learning how to meet yourself and life more calmly and wisely.Relationship over consumption
Calm Clan is an ongoing relationship — with the teachings, the practices, the community, and with me as your guide.
Available Exclusively Within Calm Clan
Inside Calm Clan, you’ll find my complete collection of Calmology courses and guided retreats. These teachings are no longer offered as standalone purchases and now live exclusively within the community, where they can be explored in your own time and supported by ongoing guidance, live gatherings, and shared learning.
Sandy has dedicated his life to helping people find peace.
Kyle Gray —Wallstreet Journal Bestselling Author
Frequenty Asked Questions
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Yes. Calm Clan is designed to meet people where they are. Some members are completely new; others have followed my work for years. You don’t need prior experience with meditation, therapy, or inner work — just a genuine interest in understanding yourself and living with more clarity, calm and authenticity.
When you log in to the Calm Clan ‘Members Hub’, you will find a section called ‘Start Here’ - where I share my 3 recommended resources if you are completely new to my work. -
It’s none of those in isolation — and it can include aspects of all three because my background does.
Calm Clan offers a grounded, integrative approach to inner change that supports your mind, body, soul and life together. There’s no dogma, belief system, or pressure to adopt a particular identity.
The focus is on what’s real, what feels right and true for you, along with what’s practical and genuinely helpful in everyday life.
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No. Live gatherings are encouraged, but not required.
Many members join live because they find it deeply supportive. Others prefer to watch the replays in their own time. Both are fully valid ways to engage. If you’re new, joining a live gathering — even just to listen — is often the easiest way to get a feel for Calm Clan.
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Calm Clan is designed to support your life, not add pressure to it.
There’s no “keeping up” or falling behind. You can engage lightly or more deeply, depending on your season of life. Even small, consistent contact with the teachings and practices can make a meaningful difference over time.
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No — and that’s a key distinction.
Calm Clan isn’t about endless information or self-improvement tasks. It’s a living context that supports real change in how you relate to yourself and life. Many members say the biggest value isn’t what they consume, but the steady orientation and perspective it provides.
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No. There’s no fixed curriculum or timeline.
Instead, Calm Clan follows a natural rhythm of learning, practice and integration. Over time, many members notice their experience aligns with what I call ARC — Awareness, Relationship and Congruence — but there’s no pressure to “progress” or achieve anything.
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Calm Clan complements one-to-one work, but it’s different.
There are many opportunities to ask me direct questions and I will offer content-appropriate responses. Due to the nature of the group setting, if you wish to go deeper and spend more time working on specific, sometimes long-term, issues, then one-to-one sessions are usually more appropriate for that kind of work.
Some members choose to work with me individually; others don’t. Calm Clan stands on its own as a supportive, ongoing environment for inner growth and real-life integration — whether or not you ever do private sessions.
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People who value depth, honesty and real change.
Many members are thoughtful, sensitive, curious humans who’ve tried other approaches and want something more grounded and integrated. Some come because life feels challenging; others because things are going well and they want to deepen how they live.
Due to the members being like-minded, many of them make friends and end up connecting outside of the ‘viritual walls’ of the Calm Clan.
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No long-term commitment is required.
Calm Clan is billed monthly or yearly, and you can cancel at any time. That said, the community is designed to support steady, longer-term engagement — and many members choose to stay because of the continuity and depth it offers.
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If you’re drawn to the idea of inner change that supports real life — without hype, dogma or pressure — Calm Clan is likely a good fit.
As the name of the community suggests, a large focus is on developing inner peace that holds in everyday life. Is this something you’d like? Then Calm Clan is a great space to be.
You don’t need certainty. Just a sense that you want something quieter, deeper and more sustaining than surface-level solutions.
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Yes. You’re free to come and go.
You can cancel your subscription at any time by logging into your account and managing it directly from your profile. There’s no need to contact us, and no pressure or judgement if you choose to step away.
Having spent years in a spiritual cult myself, I’m very intentional about this. Calm Clan is not about obligation, loyalty, or “us and them” thinking. It’s an open-door community — you’re welcome to join, stay, leave, return, or simply continue with your life.
Refund policy
All membership fees are final and non-refundable, including partial refunds if you cancel before the end of a billing period. Calm Clan is priced to be accessible, so you can join easily, stay gently connected, and return whenever it supports you.How to cancel
Log into the Members Hub → click the three lines beside your name → My Profile → Cancel Subscription.



